tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5572585803636051904.post1461325783592818895..comments2023-07-25T16:32:55.604+05:30Comments on Snippets from our life...<br>with Anirudh and Nishka: "I can't hear you" mode~nmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09354976902272949348noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5572585803636051904.post-58045686793625783142008-10-08T22:06:00.000+05:302008-10-08T22:06:00.000+05:30Selective hearing huhh..... starting young :-)Selective hearing huhh..... starting young :-)Stonehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16053118951693455094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5572585803636051904.post-61203125966202596032008-10-09T21:44:00.000+05:302008-10-09T21:44:00.000+05:30Do you think he'll like getting some pocket mo...Do you think he'll like getting some pocket money just for toys every month? He can decide how he wants to spend it. Even Sameer is getting so demanding these days. We also don't always know how to deal with it.Ruchikahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00606975600364219802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5572585803636051904.post-76989565482510707362008-10-10T10:21:00.000+05:302008-10-10T10:21:00.000+05:30at times really difficult- no answers reallyi try ...at times really difficult- no answers really<br><br>i try to tell anush that i am sad and not angry when she throws a fitArtnavyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15060564468230843716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5572585803636051904.post-37358492316024814122008-10-10T11:22:00.000+05:302008-10-10T11:22:00.000+05:30It is! Hang in there!It is! Hang in there!Solitairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5572585803636051904.post-69416007089497085572008-10-10T14:57:00.000+05:302008-10-10T14:57:00.000+05:30arent they all phases?? somehow one gets over and ...arent they all phases?? somehow one gets over and another one starts! <br><br>hope it all works out!<br><br>cheers!<br><br>abhaMama - Miahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06330103540647472728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5572585803636051904.post-60435307816538509052008-10-11T13:40:00.000+05:302008-10-11T13:40:00.000+05:30awesome.. way to go pal..ur such a brat !awesome.. way to go pal..<br>ur such a brat !Emaanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10316239770032587622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5572585803636051904.post-64222823798129887802008-10-12T22:32:00.000+05:302008-10-12T22:32:00.000+05:30Learning to be a man I guess :) I do hope its a ph...Learning to be a man I guess :) I do hope its a phase and goes away. <br><br> - MeeraCuckoohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13697563902061372977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5572585803636051904.post-75467525673164899852008-10-13T17:00:00.000+05:302008-10-13T17:00:00.000+05:30passing phase...!!!passing phase...!!!broca's areahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10978879187404578908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5572585803636051904.post-83192422659423100552008-10-14T01:18:00.000+05:302008-10-14T01:18:00.000+05:30Rishab is ditto like him whe it comes to making hi...Rishab is ditto like him whe it comes to making him listen to us. I know it and i have also been told by his Ot that i have to hold him and make him look at me when i talk to him in such situations, but he looks for a fleeting moment and looks away It can be very frustrating, I know.<br><br>AS for toys, pocket money might be a good idea. Or...What would he say if you ask him to return one toy if he wants anoter one. <br>tell him that it is not good to have too many toys, so you want him to decide what he does not want and then when you have money you wil buy him that or why you don't want to buy it for him at all. <br>Don't worry, he'll be fine. He is learning. It is surely hard on you too, but we have to go throigh this phase... yes. I can tell you one story from a woman with a 2 year old daughter, whom i met at a course I did. This woman's mother was very very strict, in the sense that she always followed that what she had said and would never give in to her daughters' demands (unjustified), for example. When they grew up she asked her daughters how it was and that she felt quite bad at times for being so strict, but the daughetrs (this woman too) said that they found it totally Ok and that she never felt being treated unjust or bad. <br>Wait till he grows up and tells you how proud he is of you for not giving in all the time. And the rest we have bear. <br>And shouldn't he be at least allowed to let his frustration out (in limits agreed)for not getting the toy! :)PGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03509732589537039753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5572585803636051904.post-31752639252547901282008-10-14T10:08:00.000+05:302008-10-14T10:08:00.000+05:30Aryan is already following elder bro !Aryan is already following elder bro !Swatihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14263330596396584816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5572585803636051904.post-48985419150907804862008-10-14T21:20:00.000+05:302008-10-14T21:20:00.000+05:30It is a phase ~nm, we'll look at it next year ...It is a phase ~nm, we'll look at it next year and laugh, hopefully!! :)<br><br>I like the pocket money idea too. I have a fiend with a 7 year old boy who gives him 5 cents for just existing/breathing everyday, so that's 35 cents a week and he can earn more by doing well on some test, helping out or generally when he behaves in desirable ways. I really like the idea and though Vansh doesn't yet ask for things/toys but I give him stickers and then after a certain no. of stickers, he gets to watch TV or play on the computer. He has off late started asking for rides in the mall a lot, so we added that he can ask for 25 cents (the ride costs 75 cents) instead of the TV/comp time if he wants the ride more than say once a week or 2 weeks he can use his money.Neerahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02908239217422161292noreply@blogger.com